How to Keep Your Divorce More Private

Divorce is a very personal experience. While the legal process is often public, there are ways to keep many of the details out of view.

If privacy matters to you, the following steps could help.

Mediation over litigation

One of the best ways to maintain privacy is by choosing mediation. Mediation takes place outside the courtroom and involves a neutral third party who helps both sides reach an agreement. These sessions are private, and records are typically not made public. This allows both people to settle matters quietly and without the formality of a court trial.

Be careful about what you post online

Social media can easily turn a private matter into a public one. Even a simple post can lead to judgments and misunderstandings. It is usually best to avoid posting about the divorce altogether. This protects not only your privacy but also the privacy of any children or loved ones involved.

Limit what becomes part of the public record

When you go to court, many details become public by default. However, some documents may be eligible to be sealed. This could apply to financial information, custody agreements or other sensitive topics. Although sealing is not automatic, it can be requested in certain cases.

The more you and your former spouse can resolve outside of court, the less information becomes available to the public. Options like mediation, private negotiations or collaborative divorce can all help keep your personal matters confidential.

With a thoughtful approach, it is possible to go through a divorce while keeping many of the details private. Seeking legal guidance can also help you do this.


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Aislynn Thomas-McDonald serves as Partner and Business Unit Leader at Kelley Kronenberg, where she focuses on family law and probate matters. Her comprehensive practice encompasses divorce, paternity, timesharing, child support matters, adoption, collaborative divorce, wills and trusts, guardianship, and elder law. Prior to joining Kelley Kronenberg, Aislynn established herself as a respected family law practitioner, earning an AV® Preeminent™ Peer Review Rating by Martindale-Hubbell®.
Aislynn strives to provide concierge support to her clients through understanding their objectives and goals, advising them honestly about the best course of action. She works to resolve issues without proceeding to litigation and then will advocate zealously when a case does move in that direction. Her commitment extends beyond legal practice through extensive community involvement and advocacy for domestic violence awareness, children's legal advocacy, and women's rights.
  • Divorce and legal separation
  • Child custody and timesharing
  • Child support and alimony
  • Prenuptial and postnuptial agreements
  • Adoption
  • Collaborative divorce
  • Domestic violence protection
  • Paternity matters
By joining Kelley Kronenberg, Attorneys at Law, in 2025, Aislynn is able to continue offering concierge legal service with the resources of a full-service large law firm. This combination provides clients with personalized attention backed by comprehensive legal resources and support.
Aislynn is dedicated to providing top-quality legal services to residents throughout South Florida and the Florida Keys. Her practice is based in Miami and serves clients throughout the region with both local expertise and broader legal resources.
To schedule a consultation with Aislynn Thomas-McDonald at Kelley Kronenberg, contact their Miami office. During your initial consultation, she will evaluate your specific situation, explain your legal options, and develop a strategy tailored to your unique circumstances and goals.
Throughout every case, Aislynn demonstrates sensitivity to both the emotional and legal challenges her clients are facing and works to reach terms that are agreeable to all parties. Your first meeting will focus on understanding your situation, discussing your objectives, and outlining potential paths forward with honest, practical advice.
Yes, Aislynn Thomas-McDonald is experienced in collaborative divorce, which offers couples a way to resolve their differences outside of traditional litigation. This approach focuses on cooperation, open communication, and finding mutually beneficial solutions while minimizing emotional and financial costs.
As a full-service law firm, Kelley Kronenberg provides access to specialists across multiple practice areas when family law cases involve complex financial matters, business valuations, tax implications, or other specialized legal issues that may arise during divorce or estate planning proceedings.