By Natalie Kay.
Many people believe they understand the meaning of child custody and the effect of such upon their children. Surprisingly, this verbiage is often misunderstood. There is no such thing as custody of children in the state of Florida.
Parenting in Florida is governed by Fla.Stat.§61.13. The non-financial aspects of parenting are divided into two (2) sub-categories, time and decision making. The time a child spends with parents is known as “time sharing” or “parenting time”. The decision making is referred to as “parental responsibility”. Both of these aspects are merged together in a legal document called a Parenting Plan. How parents engage in parenting decisions is a product of either a court ordered Parenting Plan or that which is agreed to between the parents. In fact, Fla.Stat.§61.13(2)(a) provides that under certain circumstances, if the child is not located within the state of Florida, a Florida Parenting Plan can still be created, adopted or approved by the court “if it appears to the court that the child was removed from this state for the primary purpose of removing the child from the court’s jurisdiction in an attempt to avoid the court’s approval, creation, or modification of a parenting plan.”
So what is a parenting plan? Simply stated, it is the contract between parents that governs all aspects of co-parenting. Depending upon the age of your child or children, it may be the directive which governs your child’s and your life for up to eighteen (18) years. The Parenting Plan is in writing and, if agreed upon, signed by both parties, and approved and adopted by a Judge, based upon the best interests of the children. Accordingly, it is unique to each family. The Parenting
Plan includes but is not limited to:
A Florida Parenting Plan can be as detailed and expansive as the parties choose. The contents of the Parenting Plan is required, at a minimum, to contain a detailed adequate description of:
Can a court make parenting decisions for a parent? It is very unusual that court will act as a third parent or the tiebreaker in decisions that parents cannot jointly make regarding their minor children; however, if parents have joint decision making (also referred to as Shared Parental Responsibility) and they are not able to reach their decisions with unanimity then the court can designate one parent as the “ultimate” decision maker over certain aspects of the child or children’s lives, such as educational, medical or other social aspects. And, contrary to popular belief, a Parenting Plan is not modified just because parents do not get along. In order to obtain a permanent change, or modification of a parenting plan, a substantial, material, and unanticipated change of circumstances must exist and the change must be in the best interests of the minor children.
Another commonly misused and misunderstood concept is that parents are entitled to equal time sharing with their children. While it is the public policy in Florida that each minor child has frequent and continuing contact with both parents after the parents separate, and that parents are encouraged to share the rights and responsibilities, and joys, of childrearing, there is absolutely nothing in Florida law that states that parents are entitled to equal time with their children. All time sharing schedules are anchored to the children’s best interests.
To learn about what parenting plan, time sharing schedule and parenting responsibility is best suited for your family, feel free to contact our Family Law Attorneys for an initial consultation.
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